'I almost did a spit take': Friend reveals to buddy's entitled girlfriend that her new tattoo doesn't mean what she thinks, sparking controversy amongst group

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    Posted by u/throwaway-multilingo 19 hours ago AITAH for telling a friend what her tattoo really says? n
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    Throwaway, friend group knows my main account. I (37M) went out New Year's Eve with a group of friends, and the group had some friends of friends, basically people I've only known in passing. One of them,
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    Andy(39M) brought his girlfriend Julie (30'sF). Julie decided to show a tattoo she got last week. She rolled up her sleeve to show it, and she announced proudly it said "Strength and Beauty" in Chinese. It
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    forearm and I was on her almost spit take. Now, I have to explain I'm half Korean, but people have mistaken me as hispanic, so I don't really look Korean to most westerners. I'm also not
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    fluent, but conversational in Korean and able to read. The tattoo was in Hangul characters, and it definitely did NOT say "Strength and Beauty".
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    Julie got upset at my spit take and asked what my problem was. I said "It's not Chinese, and it doesn't say what you think it does". She got even more mad and
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    said what I would know. I I was Korean- explained American, can read Korean, and what it says is not nice. I asked her what happened at the tattoo shop and she said she always wanted to
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    get asian characters, and went to a shop and saw a 'chinese guy' in the shop and demanded he be the one to do her ink. I asked Julie and Andy if Julie did anything that could've pd the tattoo artist off.
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    She denied it, but Andy confessed she was super pushy about it and kept saying she wanted him to do it over any other artist in the shop because he would be used to the characters, plus a few other
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    statements. By this point she was crying and not enjoying hanging out for New Year's Eve. She wanted to leave wanted Andy to take her. On her way out, she asked me what it said. I said "It's
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    like the worst thing you could call a woman, it's like 'bh' but worse." She just burst into tears while walking out. After the two of them left, the rest of my friends said I was a real for spoiling her new tattoo
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    and I could have made something up or not reacting. I had to explain that the word used is really a cultural faux pas and to see it on skin is shocking to the highest degree, and the
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    fact I was sipping on a beer when she revealed it only made a spit take impossible to avoid. Well, this morning I got some messages from friends saying I really should apologize to Julie for traumatizing her about her tattoo.
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    I feel like this is ridiculous, like, it's a really vulgar word on her arm, and if I had that on my skin I'd like to know. But everyone else thinks that I should have just complimented her
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    instead. So, Reddit, am I the a hole for revealing to a friend what her tattoo actually says?
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    CrabbyOlLyberrian NTA. Hangul and Chinese characters are COMPLETELY different!! She's embarrassed, and rightfully so bc she effd up. Personally, I think you did her a solid by pointing it out. Offer to get a sharpie and "fix" until she can get it covered. *sigh ● 1 day ago
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    KalamityKait2020 20 hr. ago Hangul and Chinese characters are COMPLETELY different!! That part killed me. Their characters look nothing alike to me and I'm just a BWB! How can someone say I want a phrase in this specific foreign language but can't recognize when it's the wrong language. Blows my mind.
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    DarkStar0915 20 hr. ago I can't speak either language but I know the difference between Chinese, Japanese and Korean characters. They might look similar at first but each of them is pretty unique.
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    ● Anakin Skywalkerisfav 1 day ago • edited 8 hr. ago NTA, you didn't give her the S y tattoo, you informed her that it said something bad. Everyone is only mad at you because you brought it to light, as you should. If I had what sounds like a possible slur on my arm, I would want to know ASAP so I could get the tattoo covered up or laser removed.
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    kinderg9 20 hr. ago NTA. She will undoubtedly come across additional people who are able to read it and who will probably react strongly to it. I hope she learns from it to not be pushy when dealing with service members and to do her homework before committing to anything.
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